So with all the time Spent on struggling I gave in and asked around. I found out what the issue was and it was something that I have been talking about 90% of the time on my blog...BONE WEIGHT COPY!!!!! Such a simple yet so forgotten thing.

                                      IT WORKS !!!!!! FINALLY I can relax my mind.

What I needed to do was add bone weights to the mesh then it can become a mesh. So now I have accomplished the goal of making a mod that works in the game now my next plan is to make it work out in a way that I can make more detailed clothing. I guess it's time to go back to the books. Back to work!